How Trauma Shapes Love—and What Actually Helps

Will This Work If They Don’t Recognize the Trauma?

Have you ever found yourself thinking, Can things really get better if my partner doesn’t even see how their trauma is affecting us? I’ve been there...

Have you ever found yourself thinking, Is my partner a narcissist? The defensiveness, the withdrawal, the anger—it can all feel so personal. But what if there’s more to the story? What if what you’re ...

My recent conversation with Cory Martin, founder of The Recovery Revolution, was one I wish I had heard years ago. Cory isn’t just another voice in the space—she’s lived this. From watching loved ones...

Emily Cleghorn is a Trigger Recovery Coach, author, cycle breaker, and mom of three who’s made it her life’s mission to help other mothers stop the trauma cycle—for good. After growing up in a home sh...

I recently had the incredible honor of being a guest on the "Mindfully Sovereign" podcast hosted by the radiant Sapha. Our conversation delved deep into trauma, relationships, and the transformative p...

One of the most common dreams my clients have, though they may not always voice it at first, is wanting more joy in their lives. They often can’t even remember what they love to do because they’re so ...

Reflecting on My Interview: How It Felt to Make an Impact

I recently had the opportunity to talk about my work and my book, Resilient Wives: A Guide for Women Supporting Their Husbands Through Childh...

In my recent chat with Ahna Fulmer on The Imperfectly Empowered Podcast, we dove deep into some of the most critical aspects of my journey—recognizing the signs of trauma that I initially missed, unde...

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You've tried it all, haven't you? Sifting through endless relationship advice. Being told you just need to schedule more consistent quality time together, that you just need to agree to di...

Is the unpredictability in your relationship overwhelming? Have you tried everything to navigate the emotional minefield of being married to someone who suffered childhood trauma? If so, you're not al...

I had the incredible opportunity to chat with Gia Lacqua on her amazing podcast, "Your Future Starts Now." If you haven't listened to it yet, you should! Gia's energy and passion for empowering women ...

Do your date nights just never seem to work out? If this is the case, you're not alone. I'm Danielle Sebastian, and I've spent years using the communication techniques recommended by relationship expe...