Supporting Loved Ones Through Addiction

"The Recovery Revolution: A Conversation with Cory on Loving Someone Through Addiction"

Introduction
If you’ve ever loved someone who struggles with addiction, you know the pain, frustration, and helplessness that can take over. It can feel like no matter how much you try, it’s never enough. Cory, the founder of The Recovery Revolution, understands this all too well. After years of walking alongside friends, family, and partners battling addiction, she’s learned what truly helps—and what doesn’t.

Now, Cory has turned her hard-earned wisdom into a coaching platform designed to help families and partners heal their own pain, gain clarity, and finally support their loved ones in ways that make a real difference.

During our interview, Cory shared her personal journey, the lessons she’s learned, and her thoughts on breaking the patterns that keep so many of us stuck. Let me tell you—it’s a conversation you don’t want to miss.

Cory’s Journey
Cory’s story is a testament to resilience and transformation. She’s been where so many of us have been: heartbroken and exhausted, trying to love someone through the chaos of addiction. From losing a best friend to navigating deeply codependent relationships, Cory has experienced the toll addiction takes—not just on the person struggling but on everyone who loves them.

“I spent so many years thinking the problem was everyone else,” Cory admitted. “If they would just get their act together, things would be fine. But eventually, I realized I was part of the problem too. That was the moment everything changed for me.”

Her shift from blame to self-reflection didn’t happen overnight. It took years of trial and error, moments of deep pain, and a lot of self-work to find a healthier way forward. Today, she uses that experience to guide others, helping families and partners transform their relationships and reclaim their own lives.

Codependency: What It Is and How to Break Free
If you’ve ever felt like your partner’s recovery—or lack of it—defines your happiness, you’re not alone. Cory shared that codependency is one of the most common patterns she sees in families and partners of those struggling with addiction.

“In a codependent relationship, your identity becomes wrapped up in the other person,” Cory explained. “You stop being yourself and start revolving entirely around their addiction and recovery.”

Cory shared her own struggles with codependency, describing how she used to feel like it was her job to “save” the people she loved. “I thought if I could just do enough, they’d change. But in reality, I wasn’t helping them—I was enabling the cycle and losing myself in the process.”

Breaking free from codependency doesn’t mean you stop caring. It means caring in a way that doesn’t sacrifice your well-being. “The key,” Cory said, “is to rediscover who you are outside of their struggles. When you reconnect with yourself, you can show up in the relationship in a way that’s loving, balanced, and healthy.”

The Myths That Keep Us Stuck
Cory also tackled some of the common myths about addiction that keep families and partners feeling powerless:

• Myth: “They need to hit rock bottom.”

  • Truth: People can choose recovery at any point. Compassion and support often inspire change before things get worse.

• Myth: “Tough love is the only way.”

  • Truth: Setting boundaries is important, but tough love often pushes people further into shame, making recovery harder.

• Myth: “Rehab is the answer.”

  • Truth: Rehab can be a helpful tool, but it’s not a guaranteed fix. Recovery is a lifelong process that happens in real-life relationships.

Cory emphasized that understanding the truth about addiction is key to creating an environment where healing can happen. “When we let go of the myths and approach our loved ones with compassion and understanding, we stop being part of the problem and start being part of the solution.”

The Recovery Revolution Approach
Cory’s coaching program focuses on six major shifts that help families and partners reclaim their sense of self while supporting their loved ones:

1. Healing personal resentment and anger.
2. Letting go of myths about addiction and recovery.
3. Building self-awareness and emotional resilience.
4. Developing healthier relationship skills.
5. Rediscovering personal goals and passions.
6. Creating a fulfilling life that doesn’t revolve around the loved one’s recovery.

“The goal isn’t just to help your loved one,” Cory explained. “It’s to help you. When you grow and heal, the entire relationship dynamic shifts. Sometimes that inspires your loved one to change, and sometimes it doesn’t—but either way, you’ll be okay.”

The Power of Healthy Relationships
One of the most inspiring things Cory shared was how a healthy relationship can impact recovery. “When we see someone through a lens of compassion and worth, it helps them see themselves that way too,” she said.

This doesn’t mean excusing harmful behavior or pretending everything is fine. It means showing up in a way that’s honest, loving, and clear about your boundaries. “When we stop trying to control their recovery and focus on being the healthiest version of ourselves, we create an environment where real healing can happen.”

Where Cory Is Today
Cory’s journey has led her to a life filled with purpose and peace. She’s a mom, a business owner, and a coach who helps others navigate the same challenges she once faced. “I used to feel like my life wasn’t worth living unless the people I loved changed,” she said. “Now, I’ve found joy and meaning in being myself—and that’s what I want for everyone I work with.”

Final Thoughts
Cory’s message is one of hope and empowerment. Supporting a loved one through addiction is one of the hardest things a person can do, but it doesn’t have to mean losing yourself in the process.

Her work through The Recovery Revolution is a reminder that healing starts with us. When we prioritize our own well-being and approach our relationships with compassion and clarity, we create the foundation for true change.

If you’re ready to take the first step toward healing, visit www.recoveryrevolution.com to learn more about Cory and The Recovery Revolution.

What resonated most with you about Cory’s story? I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments below. Let’s keep this important conversation going.