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He Has “Exploding Husband” Syndrome... What can YOU Do About It?

Learn the 4 Shifts to Transform Your Relationship with a High Conflict Spouse at our FREE Workshop

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This workshop is tailored to wives like you—women navigating the minefield of a relationship impacted by the scars of your husbands childhood trauma.

In this workshop, we’ll tackle the real questions:

  • Why does your partner act this way? (Spoiler: It’s not just “bad behavior.”)
  • Is there any hope things can change or should I just leave?
  • And most importantly, how you can stay in this relationship the right way.

Lina F.

"It was so nice to hear that regular communication tools don't work.  I've seen that, but I've never heard it."

Hannah M.

"Feeling seen and hopeful for change.  Reading the lists of things that I've tried and what it is doing to our relationship made me feel not alone."

Ibby

"The part about what I say versus what they hear was really good and resonated."

 

By the way, this isn’t another relationship seminar filled with fluffy advice that doesn’t work.

What Makes This Workshop Different?

When your marriage feels like a minefield, what you need most isn’t more reading.

You need connection. You need clarity.
And you need real support from someone who’s been where you are.

That’s why this is more than just a workshop — it’s a hands-on experience designed to help you stop spiraling and start shifting the dynamic in your home.

Inside the Transform Your Relationship with a High-Conflict Spouse Workshop, you’ll get:

✨ Training on trauma-informed tools you can use right away
✨ Real answers to the questions I get asked all the time — like:
 • “Does he need to be in therapy for this to work?”
 • “What do I tell him about what I’m doing?”
 • “How do I know this isn’t my fault?”
✨ A step-by-step breakdown of what’s happening beneath the surface — and what you can do about it

This isn’t another workbook you’ll never finish or a checklist that doesn’t apply to your life.

It’s a safe, supportive space to unpack what’s going on — and start changing it.

Because when your relationship feels chaotic, you don’t need more theory.
You need someone in the room with you… showing you what to do next.

That’s what this workshop is for.
And I’d be honored to walk with you.

Stephanie W.

"I am coming to believe that me making the shift in my growth and health will bring about the changes in my marriage."

Danielle P.

"Thank you for all this.  This is like you're in my house and in my marriage haha."

 

Heather A.

"Supporting my husband isn't about doing everything for him - it's about being a partner and prioritizing my own well-being."

What You'll Walk Away With...

 

✔️ A clear understanding of how trauma impacts your partner’s brain and behavior.
✔️ Actionable tools you can start using immediately to calm the chaos.
✔️ The confidence to take back control of your happiness and your marriage.
✔️ No more "false hope" that makes you feel delusional in the face of everything going on.

Real hope.

But wait, the best part...

When you sign up, you'll get access to the Transforming Your Relationship with a High-Conflict Spouse Workbook-  your no-BS guide to surviving—and thriving—in a relationship with a trauma survivor. Packed with real talk, practical tips, and zero fluff, it’s everything you need to stop the chaos and start building real connection.

What’s Inside:

  1. The Trauma Survivor’s Brain
    Why they react like they’re being chased by a bear over the smallest thing—and what you can actually do about it.

  2. How Triggers Play Out
    Real-life examples of how trauma responses show up in your relationship and how to stop taking it personally.

  3. Is It Dysregulation or Something Else?
    The cheat sheet to figure out whether it’s trauma, a bad day, or something more serious—and what to do next.

  4. 4 Shifts to Transform Your Relationship
    Actionable steps to manage triggers, stop blaming yourself, prioritize your sanity, and actually reconnect with your partner.

This isn’t just about surviving; it’s about thriving. Let’s turn your relationship into something that works for both of you—without you losing yourself in the process. 💛

Here's the Deal

🎯 This workshop is interactive, and value-packed. You’ll leave with real answers to the questions keeping you up at night.

📅 Join Me NOW!

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Nicole O.

"What resonated the most was where you said you have to remember to prioritize your own happiness.  I know that, but I'm so bad at believing that it's true."

Jennifer

"So much resonates - thank you."

 

Mara W.

"Thank you, this is so helpful and the work book will be utilized."

 

Why I Created This

Back in 2015, my own marriage hit rock bottom. It wasn’t until my husband revealed a history of childhood abuse that I finally understood the root cause of our struggles.

I had no roadmap—no guide—just endless hours of frustration and trial and error. But over time, I figured out what works.

Now, I’m sharing those tools with you. This workshop isn’t just about theory—it’s about real, actionable steps to calm the chaos and create a relationship where both of you can thrive.

Are you ready to stop spinning your wheels and start making real progress?

Don’t wait. Watch FREE event immediately.

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