4 Secrets I Learned That Helped Keep My Marriage Together

For years, I struggled to make sense of my seemingly-doomed marriage. It was only after uncovering the truth that everything began to click -my husband revealed for the first time to anyone a horrifying history of childhood sexual trauma at the hands of the church. This realization sparked an arduous eight-year mission of recovery - one fraught with deep sorrow and anguish.

After enduring many struggles with little guidance, I realized that providing effective healing involved closely examining my internal processes when it came to supporting his journey.  

These 4 secrets are what I wish desperately that someone had been able to tell me when I learned about my husbands trauma.